Find Your Shine

Here’s the thing:

• You don’t need a new morning routine.

• You don’t need to wake up at 5am.

• You don’t need to optimise your entire life.

You’re not behind. You’re just tired.

Find Your Shine is a 5-week group coaching programme for women who are done with the exhausting pursuit of perfection and ready to feel calmer, clearer and more in control of their own version of success.

Not the one Instagram sold you.
Not the one you inherited.

The one that actually fits your real life.

You’re working hard - at work, at home, in your relationships, with your health.

You’re the reliable one. The capable one. The one who gets things done.

And yet:

• Your to-do list is never finished.

• You feel like you should be further ahead.

• You rarely switch off properly.

• Even when you rest, you feel slightly guilty.

• You struggle to know what would bring you joy. 

• You can’t remember the last time you did something just because you felt like it.
  

You’ve tried being more organised. More disciplined. More productive.

But what if the answer isn’t doing more?

What if it’s redefining what actually matters?

Because so many brilliant women are burning themselves out trying to stay ahead. You’ve been told you can “have it all.” But no one talks about how exhausting that becomes when you’re trying to have it all perfectly.

At some point, you started to realise:

• The constant striving isn’t making you happier.

• The comparison isn’t motivating anymore - it’s draining.

• The version of success you’re chasing might not even be yours.
  

Find Your Shine isn't about giving up on ambition or lowering your standards - it’s about embracing the magic that happens when you choose the ambitions and standards that are truly yours. 

This is not fluffy. This is not “manifest your dream life in 7 steps”. And it’s definitely not about becoming a completely different person. It’s about small, practical shifts that create a big exhale.

Over 5 weekly group calls, we’ll work through the SHINE framework:

S — Set Yourself Up for Success

We start by getting clear on what success actually means to you - not what you’ve been taught it should mean. In this session we’ll:

• Interrogate where your ideas about success came from

• Get clear on what genuinely matters in this season of your life

• Identify where comparison is creeping in

• Create a version of success that feels achievable, energising and inspiring - not exhausting

This is about tearing up what you’ve been taught and starting to draw a new map. 

H — Harness Your Happiness Boosters

In our second session, we’ll get clear on what genuinely makes you feel better - based on both research and real life. 

You’ll:

• Identify your personal “happiness anchors”

• Spot what’s draining you unnecessarily

• Build simple habits that lift your baseline mood
  

Because small shifts can make a huge difference to your energy and zest for life. 

I — Ignite Your Interests

When was the last time you did something just because you enjoyed it? Not because it was productive. Not because it would improve you. Just because you liked it.

This week is about:

• Rediscovering what lights you up

• Letting go of the idea that hobbies have to be productive

• Making space for fun without guilt

Because you’re so much more than just your to-do list. 

N — Nail Your Non-Negotiables

This is where we get practical. You’ll define your daily, weekly and monthly non-negotiables - the things that keep you steady, sane and grounded.

We’ll cover:

• Setting boundaries without becoming “difficult”

• Releasing guilt

• Protecting your time and energy

• Saying no without a 3-paragraph explanation
  

Because shining isn’t about doing everything - it’s about protecting what matters.

E — Embrace Enough

The final piece of the puzzle: letting go of the constant feeling that you always need to be further along.

We’ll look at:

• Releasing hustle culture thinking

• Staying connected to your own definition of success

• Enjoying what you’ve already built

• Finding satisfaction without waiting for the next milestone
  

This isn’t about settling - it’s about realising you don’t have to earn rest or joy.

Instead of:

• Endless mental lists

• Quiet comparison

• Feeling behind

• Trying to “have it all”
  

You’ll feel:

• Clearer about what actually matters

• More confident in your boundaries

• Less reactive to other people’s expectations

• More present in your own life

• Lighter and more joyful
  

Like you’ve taken off a heavy backpack you didn’t realise you were carrying.

You’ve tried doing it the other way. Prioritising everything and everyone else, hoping there will be a scrap of joy waiting for you at the bottom of your to-do list. White-knuckling your way through life goals and milestones you’ve been told will make you happy. Never letting yourself slow down in case you find yourself falling behind.

Now it’s time for a new approach. Not giving up, but going all in on what actually matters. Not deprioritising success, but finding a sustainable way to achieve it. Not dimming your ambition, but getting wildly ambitious about your joy, health and vitality, as well as your career. 

I can’t wait to help you shine.